Accessing the Power of Gratitude

by | Nov 22, 2017

Creating a New Habit

 The practice of gratitude as a tool for happiness has been in the mainstream for years. Long-term studies support gratitude’s effectiveness. They are suggesting that a positive, appreciative attitude contributes to greater success in work, greater health, peak performance in sports and business, a higher sense of well-being, and a faster rate of recovery from surgery.

But while we may acknowledge gratitude’s many benefits, it still can be difficult to sustain. So many of us are trained to notice what is broken, undone or lacking in our lives. For gratitude to meet its full healing potential in our lives, it needs to become more than just a Thanksgiving word. We have to learn a new way of looking at things, a new habit. And that can take some time.

Change the way you see life


That’s why practicing gratitude makes so much sense. When we practice giving thanks for all we have, instead of complaining about what we lack, we give ourselves the chance to see all of life as an opportunity and a blessing.


Remember that gratitude isn’t a blindly optimistic approach in which the bad things in life are whitewashed or ignored. It’s more a matter of where we put our focus and attention. Pain and injustice exist in this world, but when we focus on the gifts of life, we gain a feeling of well-being. Gratitude balances us and gives us hope.

There are many things to be grateful for: colorful autumn leaves, legs that work, friends who listen and really hear, chocolate, fresh herbs, warm jackets, mangos, the ability to read, roses, our health, hawks in the sky. What’s on your list?


Some Ways to Practice Gratitude

  • Keep a gratitude journal in which you list things for which you are thankful. You can make daily, weekly or monthly lists. Greater frequency may be better for creating a new habit, but just keeping that journal where you can see it will remind you to think in a grateful way.
  • Make a gratitude collage by drawing or pasting pictures.
  • Practice gratitude around the dinner table or make it part of your nighttime routine. My friend Gail taught me the ABC of gratitude for falling asleep. Think of something that starts with the letter A that you are grateful for. Then think of something that starts with the letter B that you are grateful for, and keep going until you reach the zzzzz’s of z.
  • Make a game of finding the hidden blessing in a challenging situation.
  • When you feel like complaining, set your timer for 1 minute, and complain as much as you can until you run out of time. Then sit down and make a list of all that you are grateful for. You may be amazed by how much better you feel.
  • Notice how gratitude is impacting your life. Write about it, sing about it, express thanks for gratitude.

As you practice, an inner shift begins to occur, and you may be delighted to discover how content and hopeful you are feeling. That sense of fulfillment is gratitude at work.

I’d love to hear how you are practicing gratitude and how it has shifted your life.


  1. Lisa Tener

    Thank you Karin. This post is a lovely reminder to err on the grateful side! I find that a walk in nature can quickly put me in a state of gratitude, as there is always to much beauty to be grateful for. In addition, there are often interesting symbols that come to life as metaphors and that is always fun and a shift for the negative mind.

  2. Margaret Curry

    I have been consciously practicing gratitude since 2011. I write a gratitude list daily and share it in a yahoo group. It has been a profound experience and has made these years so much better, I know. I tend to see the negative and leave out what is good, what is working. This helps keep my spirit from seeing only the shadows.

    I love the idea of timing your complaints!

    Beautiful post! Thank you.


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